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Hey guys, I’ve been married for 4 years now, dated
Hey guys, I’ve been married for 4 years now, dated
By Anonymous
Hey guys, I’ve been married for 4 years now, dated my husband for 5 years before marriage, out sex life was awesome, we were all over ourselves, but immediately I got pregnant for my first child, I hated sex, after child birth it became worse, he has always complained, I try as much as possible to have it with him, but he wants it everyday, but I try to make him understand that I can’t do it everyday, and this has been the major issue in our marriage, we have sex at least 2 times in a week, but he is not having it, now he is threatening to cheat because of it, pls I need help, what do I do?
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zee
It's normal to experience this type of changees after childbirth and I see how frustrating it must feel trying to explain it to you husband but he's not being understanding or supportive. Have you tried explaining to him what your body went through? And it is normal to feel like this after childbirth, especially if you recently had your baby. Have you considered speaking with a doctor or a therapist regarding the situation?
peace14092
I’ve spoken to him on different occasions, but all he does is tell me how regular sex heals depression, he doesn’t care how I feel.
zee
it's sad that he doesn't understand how you are feeling. Considering your situation and your husband lack of empathy, don't you think it would be best to seek professional support?
peace14092
I think I’ll consider that, thank you
zee
There are a good number of professional counsellors that are affordable on this platform. You can check the available counsellors out and decide who you would like to book a session with.
Lauren14100
Im afraid my past experience in relationship is affecting my new relationship......I'm scared of being a lone.....I love my boyfriend.....but I feel like too accommodating towards him n he is taking me for granted.....I'm scared of losing him
Lauren14100
My boyfriend always makes me feel I'm a bad person.....he always say I'm doing the right thing at the wrong time..... He is the one with flaws n baggage yet I accepted him.....but he just go on n on saying that he doesn't trust me because he feels insecure about me mingling with others...and it's really affecting us ..we quarrel over little or nothing....I want to make things right with him I don't know how to go about it.....
zee
Communication and understanding is the key to building a healthy and lasting relationship. You need to understand that it's both of you against the issue you are trying to resolve and not against eachother. Maybe consider trying a different approach to talking to him about these issues?